A. A. Attanasio's website entry, "Sitting On the Edge of the Galaxy with You," (posted December 29, 2016) is
right here for your perusal and contemplation. (Look in the left margin under "Previous Dreadful Joy", and you'll see the hyperlink "Sitting on the Edge of the Galaxy with You." Click it.)
Just now I dashed out my own reply, nearly two years later. While awaiting Al's website moderator to approve my comment, I will share it here with you, for our mutual consideration:
A few years ago I discovered a trick that helps improve my own perspective of our place in this so-called expanding universe. I refer to this trick as the 'Law of Inversion.' In its most simple form, it involves merely considering the truth to be the opposite of what you think it is. (Of course it's not as simple as that--but that's the essential foundation upon which my philosophy of inversion operates.) So for example, when we point to the stars out there, it helps to apply my law of inversion, and consider for a moment: that the stars may be IN there, instead.
That is how I've come to personally understand this so-called expanding universe better. Because today, I do not think of the stars and all those trillions of galaxies as being "out there" at all, no. To me they are the very inner core of our creation, buried deeper than our own hearts beating inside our ribcages. You are pointing INWARDS when you point at the stars.
Now take time and space, for another example. We already know they are one thing--the spacetime continuum. But to better understand their relation to one another, simply switch them in your mind. Consider what you've always thought to be "space"--as actually "time"; and likewise, consider what we've always thought to be "time"--as actually space. If you dwell upon this long enough, you will begin to see what I mean. Because it's our planet's daily spin--as well as its annual rotation about our Sun--which accounts for the twenty-four hours in our days, as well as our years, as they "roll on by." i.e, the physical motion of our actual planet is what comprises time. And as for space itself--that one's pretty tricky, but we can easily invert our default understanding of it to realize that what we formerly thought of as "solid matter"--that is, our own planet and Sun, for instance--as being really too crude of an assessment, when we could just as easily realize that those things--Earth and our Sun--represent time itself, really.
Time may be all we have during our short life spans, here. So now, given time to dwell on my law of inversion, I've used it to make enormous quantum leaps of intuition. For example, we normally consider that the farthest point in our universe to be way out there past the farthest stars (back in time towards the big bang, presumably) when by applying my inversion tactic, I've come to realize with a profound sense of reassurance, that the truth is quite the opposite from that.
The farthest point in the universe is precisely where we are currently at. In other words--the absolute farthest away we can get in our universe is pressed up against our very faces right now.
WE ARE, by definition, the farthest point in this expanding universe, and that's because it appears to be continually out-growing membranes, within which our micro-lives are born, lived out, and expired within. Taking the law of inversion farther (I've found there are no limits to its application) we can all easily be led to see that life itself develops along the microverse--of which we are living in a skein of--and that is precisely why, imo, SETI has their focus on looking for so-called extraterrestrials in quite the opposite direction. We must look not to the past, but the future--and we must peer into the micro-world if our aim were to study deeper into this expanding universe.
Thank you Al for perpetually keeping me on my toes and helping me to ever refine my own expanding viewpoint of this curious multiverse we've all been somehow borne into.